How to get girls.
Meet Tool Bag Chaz. He's flashy, smooth, and good on the eyes. He ta-totally parties like a rock star, dude. Gettin' girls is his full time job. He knows it's key to notice when a girl changes her look, and makes sure to have a heart felt compliment ready for the moment. After scorin' digits, he knows of the 3-day incubation period prior the first call. Pull-and-tug is his middle name. He's got a girl for every night of the week, baby. You ain't never gona tie him down. Find him at the club, frat parties, or strip joint. Cheers to Chaz, our player.
Meet the Fresh Prince of Bel- Air. He's charming, funny, confident, and clownin' is his full-time. He's always pickin' on his little cousin. Sucks at dancing, but hasn't failed to give full-on solo performances, episode after episode. He gets girls left and right with his character, charisma, and sense of humor. They are just naturally attracted to something about him. Find him on the court or hittin' up girls at his work-study. Will, our pimp.
Let's face it. All guys want girls. Some more than others, and few swing the other way. For those that wana get down with the hunnies, I pass on to you my two cents.
Aside from the nice guys that get a girl here and there, we have two dominating categories that give you quantity, and if you get really good, some quality.
1. Player and 2. Pimp
Here's my free-ball definition of player: [pley-er] -noun synonym: shit head. an artist of seduction and mind fucking, skilled at swaying girls' emotionally, mentally, and physically. He can create an ambiance of genuine swag and/or compassion (whatever gets the target wet), until he gets them in the sheets.
Players know what to say, when to say it, and can smell out a hopeless romantic through the floating smog of expensive cologne they created around their entire body. They recycle the same lines, play on words, mind games, and show of swag to give their target an attractive show of brilliant sparks and fireworks. It's fine to go all out in the beginning, because this relationship won't last more than a month or two anyway. No pessimism here, just an acknowledgment of how whatever emotional connection Chazzy made with his girl is as artificial as his pickup lines.
But hey, Chaz get points on the board.
Pimp [pimp] - noun. Synonym: Badass. A man who naturally attracts pretty much every girl he happens to be in the same room with.
Pimps are pimps for three main reasons: attitude, drive, and personality. Any girl can sense when a man has real confidence, a man that truly believes in his ability to handle any situation, yet, wise enough to understand he will always have more to learn. He doesn't bitch and moan and piss his sesame street training briefs, ever. Perfection is a long ass motha fucken road, and he knows there's no time to bullshit around and pick at his ass hole. He's got ambition. He's got responsibility. He has a family that is counting on him to pull through, so pussying out is not an option. His pride is bigger than the world, because he knows he's moving closer and closer to his goal of being in a position to make positive differences in his loved ones' lives, as well as others that need it. Nonetheless, he'll fuck up here and there. But this shit gets him higher than any drug, I kid you not. He knows something. He knows the secret, and it's this: Mistakes make you better. And getting better puts you that much closer to becoming the best.
"While one person hesitates because he feels inferior, the other is busy making mistakes and becoming superior."
-Henry C. Link
This one is just pure genius.
"If I had my life to live over... I'd dare to make more mistakes next time."
- Nadine Stair
Girls sense his charisma, his strength, his potential. While other kids are bragging off their hot girlfriends or how daddy got them a spankin' new yellow Corvette, he is indifferent. His idea of happiness is above social and material success, but lies within rapid personal growth and the ability to cherish the simple, yet beautiful things in life. Players have this move where they act like they have better things to do than talk to girls. It works because girls are mystified by that sense of unavailability. Well, this move actually stems from pimps, who literally have better things to do than play flirty cat and mouse games with girls. Pimps are for real. And when Will finally does choose a girl, he really does genuinely care. Will genuinely notices she bought a brand new shirt for their first month anniversary. And Will doesn't make her his bitch, nor his princess, but treats her like a true partner, with due respect and openness. He never lies, he'll never have to. And Will knows what he wants. After Lisa rejects his wedding proposal, he didn't give up til he got her.
Aside from the nice guys that get a girl here and there, we have two dominating categories that give you quantity, and if you get really good, some quality.
1. Player and 2. Pimp
Here's my free-ball definition of player: [pley-er] -noun synonym: shit head. an artist of seduction and mind fucking, skilled at swaying girls' emotionally, mentally, and physically. He can create an ambiance of genuine swag and/or compassion (whatever gets the target wet), until he gets them in the sheets.
Players know what to say, when to say it, and can smell out a hopeless romantic through the floating smog of expensive cologne they created around their entire body. They recycle the same lines, play on words, mind games, and show of swag to give their target an attractive show of brilliant sparks and fireworks. It's fine to go all out in the beginning, because this relationship won't last more than a month or two anyway. No pessimism here, just an acknowledgment of how whatever emotional connection Chazzy made with his girl is as artificial as his pickup lines.
But hey, Chaz get points on the board.
Pimp [pimp] - noun. Synonym: Badass. A man who naturally attracts pretty much every girl he happens to be in the same room with.
Pimps are pimps for three main reasons: attitude, drive, and personality. Any girl can sense when a man has real confidence, a man that truly believes in his ability to handle any situation, yet, wise enough to understand he will always have more to learn. He doesn't bitch and moan and piss his sesame street training briefs, ever. Perfection is a long ass motha fucken road, and he knows there's no time to bullshit around and pick at his ass hole. He's got ambition. He's got responsibility. He has a family that is counting on him to pull through, so pussying out is not an option. His pride is bigger than the world, because he knows he's moving closer and closer to his goal of being in a position to make positive differences in his loved ones' lives, as well as others that need it. Nonetheless, he'll fuck up here and there. But this shit gets him higher than any drug, I kid you not. He knows something. He knows the secret, and it's this: Mistakes make you better. And getting better puts you that much closer to becoming the best.
"While one person hesitates because he feels inferior, the other is busy making mistakes and becoming superior."
-Henry C. Link
This one is just pure genius.
"If I had my life to live over... I'd dare to make more mistakes next time."
- Nadine Stair
Girls sense his charisma, his strength, his potential. While other kids are bragging off their hot girlfriends or how daddy got them a spankin' new yellow Corvette, he is indifferent. His idea of happiness is above social and material success, but lies within rapid personal growth and the ability to cherish the simple, yet beautiful things in life. Players have this move where they act like they have better things to do than talk to girls. It works because girls are mystified by that sense of unavailability. Well, this move actually stems from pimps, who literally have better things to do than play flirty cat and mouse games with girls. Pimps are for real. And when Will finally does choose a girl, he really does genuinely care. Will genuinely notices she bought a brand new shirt for their first month anniversary. And Will doesn't make her his bitch, nor his princess, but treats her like a true partner, with due respect and openness. He never lies, he'll never have to. And Will knows what he wants. After Lisa rejects his wedding proposal, he didn't give up til he got her.
Anyone can be a pimp. You don't need to be pissin' gold, Brad Pitt, or half were-wolf. Don't listen
to the crap the media and billboards tell you, because honestly, you're paying these companies to get something you can get yourself, if you'd just own your damn manhood like you're supposed to.
I personally think most girls give it up because they like you, and actually give you the benefit of the doubt that you weren't like the last asshole who hit and quit. Then they leave it up to you to decide whether you want to be another tool or someone of actual value.
So the question remains, player or pimp?
-Jo
Don't be a shit head.
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